2012-06-26-054

This is my 2 month old plant!! i'm growin it for the 1st time!! plz tel me 1>if it is a male/female 2>i want to make the plant bushy instead of makin it tall! is der any thing i can do bout it? 3>i havn used any powerfull fertilizers! i jus used cow dung mixed wid leaves and mud a few days back so is tat fine or shud i use any thing else? 4> some of the leaves at the bottom are turnin yellow nd i dunno what to do bout it!! 5> wen can i expect harvest? plz help me out with these questions!!